{"id":3894,"date":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","date_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/?p=3894"},"modified":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","slug":"se-voce-procurar-agradar-a-todos-nao-agradara-a-ninguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billybeck.com\/pt\/mental-conditioning\/if-you-seek-to-please-all-then-you-will-please-none","title":{"rendered":"Se voc\u00ea procurar agradar a todos, n\u00e3o agradar\u00e1 a ningu\u00e9m."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3895\" src=\"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_0257.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"355\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Le\u00f5es e leoas,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ao longo da hist\u00f3ria, f\u00e1bulas e hist\u00f3rias t\u00eam sido usadas como ve\u00edculo para compartilhar sabedoria.  Hoje, estou compartilhando com voc\u00eas uma f\u00e1bula escrita por Esopo h\u00e1 alguns milhares de anos.  Algumas coisas nunca mudam, essa hist\u00f3ria compartilha uma li\u00e7\u00e3o que transcende o tempo.  Vamos a ela.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">O homem, o menino e o burro<\/h4>\n<p>Um homem e seu filho estavam indo com seu burro para o mercado.  Enquanto caminhavam ao lado do burro, um homem do campo passou por eles e disse <strong><em>\"Seus tolos, para que serve um jumento sen\u00e3o para montar?\"<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o o homem colocou seu filho sobre o jumento e eles continuaram seu caminho.  Logo passaram por um grupo de homens, um dos quais disse, <strong><em>\"Olhe para aquele jovem pregui\u00e7oso, ele deixa o pai andar enquanto ele cavalga.\"\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o o homem ordenou ao filho que descesse e subiu ele mesmo.  Mas eles n\u00e3o tinham ido muito longe quando passaram por duas mulheres, uma das quais disse \u00e0 outra: <strong><em>\"\u00c9 vergonhoso para aquele homem pregui\u00e7oso deixar seu pobre filhinho se arrastando.\"\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O homem n\u00e3o sabia o que fazer, mas, por fim, juntou-se ao filho e montaram juntos no jumento.  A essa altura, j\u00e1 estavam na cidade, e as pessoas come\u00e7aram a apontar e rir deles.  O homem parou e perguntou do que todos estavam rindo. O transeunte disse:<em><strong> \"Voc\u00ea n\u00e3o se envergonha de ter sobrecarregado aquele seu pobre burro - voc\u00ea e seu filho enorme?\"\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>O pai e o filho saltaram e pensaram no que fazer.  Eles pensaram e pensaram, at\u00e9 que finalmente cortaram um poste, amarraram as patas do burro nele e levantaram o poste e o burro at\u00e9 os ombros. Eles se esfor\u00e7aram para carregar o burro dessa forma, mas continuaram, temendo a opini\u00e3o da multid\u00e3o.  Eles seguiram em meio a muitas risadas at\u00e9 chegarem \u00e0 ponte.  O burro soltou uma das patas e fez com que o menino soltasse a ponta. O burro caiu sobre a ponte e se afogou no rio.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\"Isso vai lhe ensinar\".<\/strong> <\/em>disse um homem idoso que os havia seguido.<\/p>\n<p>A li\u00e7\u00e3o aqui \u00e9: \"Se voc\u00ea procurar agradar a todos, n\u00e3o agradar\u00e1 a ningu\u00e9m\".<\/p>\n<p>Para ser verdadeiramente livre e desfrutar plenamente da vida, voc\u00ea n\u00e3o deve se preocupar com a opini\u00e3o dos outros. Como Clint Eastwood disse certa vez, <em><strong>\"Opini\u00f5es s\u00e3o como idiotas; todo mundo tem uma e, em geral, elas n\u00e3o prestam.\"\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Todo ser humano tem o direito inalien\u00e1vel de tomar suas pr\u00f3prias decis\u00f5es.  Isso vale para os dois lados. Voc\u00ea deve permitir que os outros tamb\u00e9m tomem suas pr\u00f3prias decis\u00f5es.  Cada um de n\u00f3s \u00e9 o \u00fanico respons\u00e1vel por nossas vidas, mas n\u00e3o por outras.  Para muitos, essa \u00e9 uma p\u00edlula amarga de engolir.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"Se voc\u00ea quer liberdade, voc\u00ea deve d\u00e1-la - primeiro.\"<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"As pessoas est\u00e3o vinculadas porque vinculam outras.\" -Saint Germain<\/h4>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lions &amp; Lionesses,\u00a0 Throughout history, fables and stories have been used as a vehicle for sharing wisdom. \u00a0Today, I&#8217;m sharing with you a fable written by Aesop a couple of thousand of years ago. \u00a0Some things never change, this story shares a lesson that transcends time. \u00a0Let&#8217;s get to it. 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