{"id":3894,"date":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","date_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/?p=3894"},"modified":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","slug":"als-je-het-iedereen-naar-de-zin-wilt-maken-zul-je-het-niemand-naar-de-zin-maken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billybeck.com\/nl\/mental-conditioning\/if-you-seek-to-please-all-then-you-will-please-none","title":{"rendered":"Als je ernaar streeft om het iedereen naar de zin te maken, dan zul je het niemand naar de zin maken."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3895\" src=\"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_0257.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"355\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Leeuwen en leeuwinnen,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Door de geschiedenis heen zijn fabels en verhalen gebruikt om wijsheid te delen.  Vandaag deel ik met jullie een fabel die Aesop een paar duizend jaar geleden schreef.  Sommige dingen veranderen nooit, dit verhaal deelt een les die de tijd overstijgt.  Laten we beginnen.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">De man, de jongen en de ezel<\/h4>\n<p>Een man en zijn zoon gingen met hun ezel naar de markt.  Terwijl ze langs de ezel liepen kwam er een landgenoot langs die zei <strong><em>\"Jullie dwazen, waar is een ezel anders voor dan om op te rijden?\"<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dus zette de man zijn zoon op de ezel en ze vervolgden hun weg.  Al snel passeerden ze een groep mannen, waarvan er \u00e9\u00e9n zei, <strong><em>\"Kijk dat luie jong eens, hij laat zijn vader lopen terwijl hij rijdt.\"\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dus de man beveelt zijn zoon om af te stappen en stapt zelf op.  Maar ze waren nog niet ver toen ze twee vrouwen passeerden, waarvan de ene tegen de andere zei: <strong><em>\"Schande voor die luie man om zijn arme zoontje mee te laten sjokken.\"\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De man wist niet wat hij moest doen, maar uiteindelijk voegde hij zich bij zijn zoon en samen reden ze op de ezel.  Tegen die tijd waren ze in de stad en de mensen begonnen naar hen te wijzen en hen uit te lachen.  De man stopte en vroeg waar iedereen om lachte. De voorbijganger zei:<em><strong> \"Schaam je je niet voor het overbelasten van die arme ezel van je - jij en je enorme zoon?\"\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>De vader en de zoon sprongen eraf en dachten na over wat ze moesten doen.  Ze dachten en dachten, tot ze uiteindelijk een paal omhakten, de voeten van de ezel eraan vastbonden en de paal en de ezel op hun schouders tilden. Ze hadden moeite om de ezel op deze manier te dragen, maar gingen door, uit angst voor de mening van de menigte.  Ze gingen verder onder luid gelach totdat ze bij de brug aankwamen.  De ezel schopte een van zijn poten los en zorgde ervoor dat de jongen zijn uiteinde liet vallen. De ezel viel over de brug en verdronk in de rivier.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\"Dat zal je leren,\" zei hij.<\/strong> <\/em>zei een oude man die hen gevolgd was.<\/p>\n<p>De les hier is \"Als je probeert om het iedereen naar de zin te maken, dan zul je het niemand naar de zin maken\".<\/p>\n<p>Om echt vrij te zijn en ten volle van het leven te genieten, moet je je niets aantrekken van wat anderen denken. Zoals Clint Eastwood ooit zei, <em><strong>\"Meningen zijn als a**holes; iedereen heeft er een en meestal stinken ze.\"\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ieder mens heeft het onvervreemdbare recht om zijn eigen beslissingen te nemen.  Het gaat twee kanten op. Je moet anderen ook toestaan om hun eigen beslissingen te nemen.  Ieder van ons is alleen verantwoordelijk voor zijn eigen leven, maar niet voor dat van anderen.  Dat is voor velen een bittere pil om te slikken.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"Als je Vrijheid wilt, moet je het eerst geven.\"<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"Mensen zijn gebonden omdat ze anderen binden.\" -Saint Germain<\/h4>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lions &amp; Lionesses,\u00a0 Throughout history, fables and stories have been used as a vehicle for sharing wisdom. \u00a0Today, I&#8217;m sharing with you a fable written by Aesop a couple of thousand of years ago. \u00a0Some things never change, this story shares a lesson that transcends time. \u00a0Let&#8217;s get to it. 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