{"id":3763,"date":"2021-02-16T20:51:59","date_gmt":"2021-02-17T01:51:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/?p=3763"},"modified":"2021-02-16T21:00:09","modified_gmt":"2021-02-17T02:00:09","slug":"hoe-je-van-de-dingen-kunt-houden-die-je-haat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billybeck.com\/nl\/mental-conditioning\/how-to-love-the-stuff-you-hate","title":{"rendered":"Hoe je van de dingen kunt houden die je haat."},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"auto\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3193\" src=\"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/BB3pushup-1-300x202.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"202\" \/><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Leeuwen en leeuwinnen!<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Onlangs las ik een boek dat meer dan 100 jaar geleden werd gepubliceerd. De titel was heel eenvoudig maar diepzinnig.<\/div>\n<h4 dir=\"auto\"><em><strong>\"Houd van je problemen\" door Lillian De Waters<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/em><\/h4>\n<div dir=\"auto\">De meeste mensen praten onophoudelijk over wat er fout ging of fout zou kunnen gaan.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Toch zullen diezelfde mensen zeggen \"gedachten zijn dingen\" &amp; \"wat je spreekt, cre\u00eber je\".<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Als je deze dingen gelooft, waarom zou je er dan rechtstreeks tegenin gaan?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ze \"geloven\" deze uitspraken van de Waarheid niet, ze zijn het ermee eens.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Waarom lijden ze dan?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Het antwoord is dat veel mensen verslaafd zijn aan het contact met anderen door hun problemen.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ze moeten iedereen over hun problemen vertellen.<\/div>\n<h5 dir=\"auto\">Hoe helpt dit hen?<\/h5>\n<h5 dir=\"auto\">Hoe helpt dit jou?<\/h5>\n<h5 dir=\"auto\">Hoe helpt dit de wereld?<\/h5>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Het helpt niemand. Het is schadelijk voor jou, anderen en de wereld.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Je plant de zaden van angst.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Als dit je verontwaardigt, loop dan naar de spiegel en vraag jezelf af<em><strong> \"Wat moet ik geloven om verontwaardigd te zijn?\"\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ontdek de hoofdoorzaak.  De programmering die negatieve emoties en acties triggert.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Deze onbewuste regels (overtuigingen) saboteren je.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Kun je je niet aan je eetplan houden?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Stomme dingen blijven doen waarvan je weet dat je ze niet zou moeten doen?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Belangrijke dingen waarvan je weet dat ze jou en anderen zullen helpen, niet doorzetten?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Het komt ALLEMAAL van dezelfde plek.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h3 dir=\"auto\">Als je de op angst gebaseerde programmering opruimt, is het leven leuk en gemakkelijk. Je werkt hard maar zo voelt het niet.  Zo weet je dat je niet alleen iets bereikt, maar ook een bevredigend leven leidt.<\/h3>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Wat is dan de eerste stap?<\/div>\n<h4 dir=\"auto\">Zelfbewustzijn.<\/h4>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Je moet jezelf op heterdaad betrappen. Wees je bewust van je gedachten en negatieve emoties.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h3 dir=\"auto\">Vervolgens moet je het eigenaarschap opeisen.  Geef nooit iemand of iets buiten jezelf de schuld. Anderen of omstandigheden de schuld geven maakt van jou een slaaf.<\/h3>\n<h3 dir=\"auto\">\u00a0100% verantwoordelijkheid nemen voor alles wat er in je leven gebeurt, geeft je de Kracht om jezelf, anderen en de wereld te transformeren.<\/h3>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ik zal het hierbij laten voor vandaag.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Iets om de hele dag over na te denken.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Dit zijn de kleine dingen die na verloop van tijd tot enorme RESULTATEN leiden.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Dit zijn ook de eigenschappen van de meest succesvolle en tevreden mensen die ik ooit heb gekend.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Je bent vrij om deze kennis te gebruiken of te negeren.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ik heb mijn deel gedaan. De rest is aan jou, mijn vriend.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h3 dir=\"auto\">Je bent geen lammetje. Je bent als leeuw geboren.<\/h3>\n<p><em><strong>BB3<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lions &amp; Lionesses! I recently read a book published over 100 years ago. It\u2019s title was very simple but profound. \u201cLove Your Problems\u201d by Lillian De Waters Most humans speak incessantly about what went wrong or could go wrong. Yet these same humans will say \u201cthoughts are things.\u201d &amp; \u201cwhat you speak, you create.\u201d If [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3193,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[376,95,378,377,379],"class_list":["post-3763","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mental-conditioning","tag-fear-programming","tag-mental-conditioning-2","tag-self-awareness","tag-unconscious-beliefs","tag-you-were-born-a-lion"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>How To Love the Stuff You Hate. - Billy Beck<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"How do you become successful? 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