{"id":3869,"date":"2021-02-28T19:35:31","date_gmt":"2021-03-01T00:35:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/?p=3869"},"modified":"2021-02-28T19:35:31","modified_gmt":"2021-03-01T00:35:31","slug":"quando-si-scatena-linferno-ecco-cosa-fare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billybeck.com\/it\/mental-conditioning\/when-all-hell-breaks-loose-heres-what-to-do","title":{"rendered":"Quando si scatena l'inferno, ecco cosa fare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2818\" src=\"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/G-Force-BB3-Photo-Shoot-018-209x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"209\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lions e Lionesse!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Saltare gli allenamenti e rimpinzarsi di cupcake e vino avr\u00e0 sicuramente degli effetti collaterali negativi. <strong>Quando la vita si fa dura, tutti noi abbiamo dei meccanismi di coping, ovvero delle azioni che ci fanno sentire al sicuro e confortati.<\/strong> \u00a0Alcuni esseri umani vanno a correre e altri si ubriacano di brutto.  Quando siamo in uno stato di paura, la maggior parte di noi fa cose stupide.  Cose che fanno male a noi stessi e a volte agli altri.  Una volta passata la paura, di solito subentra il rimpianto.  Tutti i rimpianti nascono da uno stato di paura.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Non avrebbe quindi senso avere un sistema per gestire questi stati negativi?<\/h4>\n<p>Certo, \u00e8 un'idea brillante.  Posso testimoniare la sua importanza.  In passato, quando non mangiavo, diventavo molto scontrosa.  La \"fame\" non \u00e8 una scusa per trattare male gli altri.  Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che mi ha detto una mia cara amica e mi ha scosso nel profondo.  In quel momento ho deciso che non avrei permesso a nulla di mettermi in quel posto.  Sono diventata determinata a dominare le mie emozioni.  Prima di proseguire, devo ammettere che questo processo \u00e8 infinito e richiede molta energia. Tuttavia, ne vale la pena.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">In ogni momento, le nostre emozioni determinano se siamo in paradiso o all'inferno.<\/h4>\n<p>Oggi voglio condividere con voi un semplice \"processo di pensiero\" che ho utilizzato e condiviso con molti clienti per uscire dalla sensazione di disagio.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si pone una domanda al cervello, questo risponde sempre.  \u00c8 cos\u00ec che funziona.  Quindi fate una domanda per reindirizzare i vostri pensieri negativi in una direzione pi\u00f9 vantaggiosa.  Questo \u00e8 il processo RALL.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Il processo R.A.L.L.<\/h4>\n<p><strong>R sta per RISPETTO: cosa potrei rispettare di questa persona o situazione?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A sta per APPREZZARE: cosa potrei apprezzare di questa persona o situazione?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>L is for LAUGH: cosa potrebbe esserci di divertente in questo?  Forse non ora, ma tra qualche anno?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>L sta per IMPARARE: Cosa potrei imparare da questo momento?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All'inizio potrebbe essere necessario allontanarsi dalla situazione o dalla persona.   Fate una passeggiata o fate qualcosa di non distruttivo.  In altre parole, non andate in un bar o in una gelateria a dare di matto.  Centratevi e ponetevi le 4 domande.  Vi consiglio di scriverle o di registrare le vostre risposte.  Rivedere questi appunti in seguito \u00e8 un'esperienza che apre gli occhi.  Iniziate a vedervi come siete e non come \"pensate\".  Si comincia a capire se stessi e perch\u00e9 ci si comporta in quel modo.  Da questa prospettiva di consapevolezza e onest\u00e0, possiamo decidere di migliorarci.  Dopo tutto, la vita \u00e8 tutta una questione di padronanza di s\u00e9.  Siamo tutti qui per imparare, crescere e diventare di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Sfortunatamente, nessuno ci insegna queste cose a scuola, quindi dobbiamo andare alla ricerca della nostra padronanza di noi stessi.  Se siete dei grandi nerd come me, allora \u00e8 un viaggio divertente.  Guardate voi stessi e gli altri con occhi gentili.  Ogni giorno concentratevi sul riempimento del vostro bicchiere, in modo da avere di pi\u00f9 da dare al mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Allenatevi, mangiate sano, dormite bene, bevete acqua pulita, leggete, imparate, ridete molto, aiutate con gioia gli altri e, come disse Gandhi, \"siate il cambiamento che volete vedere nel mondo\".<\/p>\n<p>Ci sei, amico mio.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che siete pi\u00f9 grandi di qualsiasi sfida vi si presenti davanti.<\/p>\n<p>Billy Beck III \"BB3\"<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/billybeck.com\/it\/condizionamento-mentale\/il-test-di-durezza-mentale-tutti-sono-dei-duri-fino-a-quando\/\"><strong>Leggi il prossimo articolo: Il test di resistenza mentale: Ognuno \u00e8 un duro finch\u00e9 non c'\u00e8 nessuno a guardare<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lions &amp; Lionesses! Missing workouts and stuffing your face with cupcakes and wine will certainly have some negative side effects. 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