{"id":3894,"date":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","date_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/?p=3894"},"modified":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","slug":"si-vous-cherchez-a-plaire-a-tous-vous-ne-plairez-a-personne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billybeck.com\/fr\/mental-conditioning\/if-you-seek-to-please-all-then-you-will-please-none","title":{"rendered":"Si vous cherchez \u00e0 plaire \u00e0 tous, vous ne plairez \u00e0 personne."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3895\" src=\"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_0257.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"355\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lions et Lionnes,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tout au long de l'histoire, les fables et les histoires ont \u00e9t\u00e9 utilis\u00e9es comme moyen de partager la sagesse.  Aujourd'hui, je partage avec vous une fable \u00e9crite par \u00c9sope il y a quelques milliers d'ann\u00e9es.  Certaines choses ne changent jamais, et cette histoire partage une le\u00e7on qui transcende le temps.  Allons-y.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">L'homme, le gar\u00e7on et l'\u00e2ne<\/h4>\n<p>Un homme et son fils se rendaient au march\u00e9 avec leur \u00e2ne.  Alors qu'ils marchaient \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9 de l'\u00e2ne, un paysan les a d\u00e9pass\u00e9s et leur a dit <strong><em>\"Imb\u00e9ciles, \u00e0 quoi sert un \u00e2ne si ce n'est \u00e0 le monter ?\"<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>L'homme mit son fils sur l'\u00e2ne et ils continu\u00e8rent leur chemin.  Ils pass\u00e8rent bient\u00f4t devant un groupe d'hommes, dont l'un dit , <strong><em>\"Regardez ce jeune paresseux, il laisse son p\u00e8re marcher pendant qu'il monte \u00e0 cheval\".\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>L'homme ordonne \u00e0 son fils de descendre et monte lui-m\u00eame.  Mais ils n'avaient pas \u00e9t\u00e9 loin qu'ils crois\u00e8rent deux femmes, dont l'une dit \u00e0 l'autre : <strong><em>\"Honte \u00e0 cet homme paresseux qui laisse son pauvre petit fils tra\u00eener.\"\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>L'homme ne savait pas quoi faire, mais finalement il rejoignit son fils et ils mont\u00e8rent ensemble sur l'\u00e2ne.  Ils \u00e9taient d\u00e9j\u00e0 en ville et les gens se mirent \u00e0 les montrer du doigt et \u00e0 se moquer d'eux.  L'homme s'arr\u00eata et demanda de quoi tout le monde riait. Le passant r\u00e9pondit :<em><strong> \"N'as-tu pas honte de surcharger ton pauvre \u00e2ne, toi et ton \u00e9norme fils ?\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Le p\u00e8re et le fils saut\u00e8rent et r\u00e9fl\u00e9chirent \u00e0 ce qu'il fallait faire.  Ils r\u00e9fl\u00e9chirent encore et encore, jusqu'\u00e0 ce qu'enfin ils coupent un poteau, y attachent les pieds de l'\u00e2ne et soul\u00e8vent le poteau et l'\u00e2ne sur leurs \u00e9paules. Ils eurent du mal \u00e0 porter l'\u00e2ne de cette fa\u00e7on, mais ils continu\u00e8rent, craignant l'opinion de la foule.  Ils avanc\u00e8rent au milieu des rires jusqu'\u00e0 ce qu'ils arrivent au pont.  L'\u00e2ne donna un coup de pied \u00e0 l'un de ses pieds, ce qui fit tomber le gar\u00e7on. L'\u00e2ne tomba du pont et se noya dans la rivi\u00e8re.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\"Cela vous apprendra\".<\/strong> <\/em>dit un vieil homme qui les avait suivis.<\/p>\n<p>La le\u00e7on \u00e0 tirer est la suivante : \"Si vous cherchez \u00e0 plaire \u00e0 tous, vous ne plairez \u00e0 personne\".<\/p>\n<p>Pour \u00eatre vraiment libre et profiter pleinement de la vie, il faut ne pas se soucier de ce que pensent les autres. Comme l'a dit Clint Eastwood, <em><strong>\"Les opinions, c'est comme les trous de balle, tout le monde en a une et en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral elle pue.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Chaque \u00eatre humain a le droit inali\u00e9nable de prendre ses propres d\u00e9cisions.  Cela va dans les deux sens. Vous devez permettre aux autres de prendre \u00e9galement leurs propres d\u00e9cisions.  Chacun d'entre nous est seul responsable de sa vie, mais pas des autres.  C'est une pilule am\u00e8re \u00e0 avaler pour beaucoup.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"Si vous voulez la libert\u00e9, vous devez d'abord la donner.<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"Les gens sont li\u00e9s parce qu'ils lient les autres. -Saint Germain<\/h4>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lions &amp; Lionesses,\u00a0 Throughout history, fables and stories have been used as a vehicle for sharing wisdom. \u00a0Today, I&#8217;m sharing with you a fable written by Aesop a couple of thousand of years ago. \u00a0Some things never change, this story shares a lesson that transcends time. \u00a0Let&#8217;s get to it. 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