{"id":3894,"date":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","date_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/?p=3894"},"modified":"2021-03-02T19:34:32","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T00:34:32","slug":"wer-es-allen-recht-machen-will-wird-es-keinem-recht-machen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/billybeck.com\/de\/mental-conditioning\/if-you-seek-to-please-all-then-you-will-please-none","title":{"rendered":"Wenn Sie versuchen, es allen recht zu machen, werden Sie es keinem recht machen."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3895\" src=\"https:\/\/www.billybeck.com\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_0257.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"355\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u00f6wen und L\u00f6winnen,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Im Laufe der Geschichte wurden Fabeln und Geschichten immer wieder als Mittel zur Vermittlung von Weisheit eingesetzt.  Heute m\u00f6chte ich eine Fabel mit Ihnen teilen, die von \u00c4sop vor einigen tausend Jahren geschrieben wurde.  Manche Dinge \u00e4ndern sich nie, diese Geschichte vermittelt eine Lektion, die die Zeit \u00fcberdauert.  Kommen wir zur Sache.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Der Mann, der Junge und der Esel<\/h4>\n<p>Ein Mann und sein Sohn waren mit ihrem Esel auf dem Weg zum Markt.  Als sie an der Seite des Esels entlanggingen, ging ein Landmann an ihnen vorbei und sagte <strong><em>\"Ihr Narren, wozu ist ein Esel da, au\u00dfer um darauf zu reiten?\"<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Da setzte der Mann seinen Sohn auf den Esel, und sie setzten ihren Weg fort.  Bald kamen sie an einer Gruppe von M\u00e4nnern vorbei, von denen einer sagte, <strong><em>\"Sieh dir den faulen Jungen an, er l\u00e4sst seinen Vater laufen, w\u00e4hrend er reitet.\"\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Da befahl der Mann seinem Sohn, auszusteigen, und stieg selbst ein.  Aber sie waren noch nicht weit gegangen, als sie an zwei Frauen vorbeikamen, von denen die eine zu der anderen sagte: <strong><em>\"Schande \u00fcber den faulen Mann, dass er seinen armen kleinen Sohn mit sich schleifen l\u00e4sst.\"\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Der Mann wusste nicht, was er tun sollte, aber schlie\u00dflich schloss er sich seinem Sohn an und gemeinsam ritten sie auf dem Esel.  Inzwischen waren sie in der Stadt, und die Leute fingen an, auf sie zu zeigen und \u00fcber sie zu lachen.  Der Mann blieb stehen und fragte, wor\u00fcber alle lachten. Der Passant sagte:<em><strong> \"Sch\u00e4mst du dich nicht, dass du deinen armen Esel \u00fcberlastet hast - du und dein riesiger Sohn?\"\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Der Vater und der Sohn sprangen ab und \u00fcberlegten, was sie tun sollten.  Sie \u00fcberlegten und \u00fcberlegten, bis sie schlie\u00dflich eine Stange f\u00e4llten, die F\u00fc\u00dfe des Esels daran banden und die Stange und den Esel auf ihre Schultern hoben. Es fiel ihnen schwer, den Esel auf diese Weise zu tragen, aber sie gingen weiter, weil sie die Meinung der Menge f\u00fcrchteten.  Unter gro\u00dfem Gel\u00e4chter zogen sie weiter, bis sie die Br\u00fccke erreichten.  Der Esel stie\u00df einen seiner F\u00fc\u00dfe ab, wodurch der Junge sein Ende fallen lie\u00df. Der Esel st\u00fcrzte \u00fcber die Br\u00fccke und ertrank im Fluss.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\"Das wird dich lehren\".<\/strong> <\/em>sagte ein alter Mann, der ihnen gefolgt war.<\/p>\n<p>Die Lektion hier lautet: \"Wenn du versuchst, es allen recht zu machen, wirst du es niemandem recht machen\".<\/p>\n<p>Um wirklich frei zu sein und das Leben in vollen Z\u00fcgen genie\u00dfen zu k\u00f6nnen, muss man sich nicht darum k\u00fcmmern, was andere denken. Wie Clint Eastwood einmal sagte, <em><strong>\"Meinungen sind wie Arschl\u00f6cher, jeder hat eine und sie stinken meistens.\"\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Jeder Mensch hat das unver\u00e4u\u00dferliche Recht, seine eigenen Entscheidungen zu treffen.  Das gilt in beide Richtungen. Sie m\u00fcssen auch anderen erlauben, ihre eigenen Entscheidungen zu treffen.  Jeder von uns ist allein f\u00fcr sein Leben verantwortlich, aber nicht f\u00fcr das anderer.  Das ist f\u00fcr viele eine bittere Pille, die sie schlucken m\u00fcssen.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"Wenn du Freiheit willst, musst du sie zuerst geben\".<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">\"Die Menschen sind gebunden, weil sie andere binden.\" -St. Germain<\/h4>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lions &amp; Lionesses,\u00a0 Throughout history, fables and stories have been used as a vehicle for sharing wisdom. \u00a0Today, I&#8217;m sharing with you a fable written by Aesop a couple of thousand of years ago. \u00a0Some things never change, this story shares a lesson that transcends time. \u00a0Let&#8217;s get to it. 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